Dear Southport U.M.C.,
Ah, Valentine’s Day—the season of heart-shaped chocolates, overpriced roses, and last-minute card purchases from the gas station. While it may seem like a modern-day Hallmark holiday, its roots go much deeper.
St. Valentine, a 3rd-century Roman priest, is said to have defied an emperor’s decree by performing secret marriages for Christian couples. His commitment to love—God’s love and the love between people—ultimately cost him his life. Over time, his story became entwined with a celebration of romance, but at its core, Valentine’s Day is a reminder of love in all its forms.
TheBible speaks of several kinds of love:
❤️Eros – Passionate, romantic love (think Song of Solomon).
💛Philia – Deep friendship and brotherly love (like David and Jonathan).
💙Storge – Family love (a parent’s love for a child).
🤍Agape – Unconditional, selfless love—the love God has for us.
As Christians, we’re called to embrace all these expressions of love, but most importantly, agape love—a love that serves,forgives, and sacrifices. This kind of love isn’t confined to one day on the calendar; it’s a way of life.
So, as you celebrate Valentine’s Day (whether with chocolates, a romantic dinner, or a heartfelt “thank you” to your closest friends), remember that love is more than a fleeting feeling—it’s a commitment to care, to show up, and to put others before ourselves.
And speaking of being intentional in love, this Sunday we continue our sermon series Unplugged: Disconnect to Reconnect. We’reexploring how we can better love God and one another by being more present—lessdistracted by our screens and more engaged in real relationships. Join us in worship as we take a step toward a deeper, more meaningful connection with God and each other.
Blessings,
Rev.William G. Nickrand
